Sally Ride didn’t built that!

Sally Ride has passed away.  I’m sure you’ve probably heard this news already, but because I have been assimilated into the obot borg in the Obama Era of Transparency™, I wanted to share with you the most honest way to view this tragic event.

As we’ve all learned, people who achieve things often think it was because they were smart, or because they worked hard.  In reality, these people are simply very narcissistic, very selfish, and very dismissive of all the people who actually DID cause that person to have that achievement.  Let’s face it, SOMEbody helped them cross the street when they were in kindergarten.  SOMEbody produced the piece of paper that they wrote an “A” essay on.  SOMEbody made the little carton that the person drank milk out of at lunch.  These people, and many more not mentioned, all deserve equal credit for the person’s achievement, as they were each a necessary part of the person’s path in life and toward their achievement.

In 1973, Sally recieved her BA in both physics and English from Stanford University.  Now, as we all know, physics is a difficult discipline, and virtually NO one is able or cares to use proper grammar or spelling anymore, so we know right there – she didn’t get that degree by herself.  (And a WOMAN and physics?  snigger, snigger, snigger!)  During this time at Stanford, she played four years of collegiate tennis.  It’s obvious she couldn’t have had a double major, and a difficult one at that, AND play four years of college sports – it’s very clear she didn’t do all that without substantial help.  Especially since, if someone hadn’t strung those tennis racquets she bought, she wouldn’t have been able to play tennis anyway.

In 1977, Sally read that NASA was finally going to start accepting female members, which led her to apply for the program.  She ended up being accepted in 1978 as one of only 6 women among 35 trainees, but she didn’t get that acceptance letter on her own.  Had someone not printed out the newspaper in which she read of the program, she would never have embarked on her future journey.  Had someone not handed her the application, she would have never filled it out and been considered.

In 1983, Sally was a crew member on the Challenger shuttle – and in so doing, hit two milestones – she was the first American woman, and the youngest American, to fly in space.  But we mustn’t give these milestones too much weight, however, as we’ve already seen how much help she had along the way.  In 1984, Sally again flew on the Challenger.  She had extra help that time, as the people around NASA already knew who she was – that gives someone an extra advantage that other people don’t have.  I even found photographic evidence that she had help:

In 1986, Sally was appointed to the presidential committee which was tasked with investigating the Challenger disaster.  She was “appointed”.  Enough said.  She didn’t have to do anything to get on this fancy sounding resume-filler.

In 1987, Sally retired from NASA after being with them about a decade.  She had just published the first of her seven children’s science books.  Yeah, she had help with these, too – she had a co-writer.  Here’s a photo of a youngster who was inspired by one of these books:

In 1988, Sally was inducted into the National Women’s Hall of Fame.  Again, notice the words.  “Inducted”.  Enough said, again.

In 1989, she obtained employment at the University of California San Diego in their California Space Institute.  She became director of the institute and also a professor of physics.  Obviously, she must have had truly important people smoothing the way for her.  And she would never have been able to move into her new offices if someone hadn’t cleaned it up for her after the last tenant.  And there must have been somebody tasked with keeping her office supplies filled up and organized.  And somebody probably explained to her where to park her car when she came to work, and how to find the bathrooms in the building.  Again, all of these people deserve equal credit, because she didn’t do it without them.

In 2001, Sally founded Sally Ride Science, an educational company which promoted science among young students.  Well, sure, she probably had made an exhorbitant amount of money over all those years for not being any smarter or working any harder than anyone else, so what’s so hard about starting a company in your own name when you have lots of money?

In 2003, NASA appointed her to investigate the Columbia disaster.  “Appointed.”  Yeah, we know what that means.

Then it just gets embarassingly obvious that she was getting stuff she “didn’t do”:

2003  Inducted into Astronaut Hall of Fame at Kennedy Space Center

2005  Awarded NCAA’s Theodore Roosevelt “Teddy” Award, highest honor presented to a former student-athlete

2006  Inducted into the California Hall of Fame

2007  Inducted into the National Aviation Hall of Fame

2012  Awarded the National Space Grant Distinguished Service Award

Okay, back to reality!  Sally appears to have been a woman in the mold of Hillary and Geraldine – a real go-getter.  Regardless of who replaced the toilet paper in the bathrooms or kept her office supplies filled up, this woman quite clearly worked very hard.  She loved science, and sought to become educated in it.  She wanted to fly into space, and she made it happen.  She used her knowledge to investigate disasters to help improve the space program she so loved.  And she used her own time and money to create a program which would encourage other young girls contemplate careers in science and the space program.

Remember, this is a woman who could have made big bucks on a speaking circuit (Obama’s only future option).  But instead she shared her knowledge, and contributed back to the field that had given her so much.  This woman was the epitome of the work ethic.  She had dreams and goals, and the knowledge that hard work could help her realize them.  She didn’t live day to day, trying to find ways to live off the government.  She was the living embodiment of the American Dream.  And notice I didn’t even use accumulated wealth as one of the necessary ingredients of the American Dream.

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Heck, even an ice cube can have dreams and goals!  So, what’s the problem with so many people today?

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Here’s hoping we start finding more Sally Rides in our midst, because Obama’s vision of America does not seem to match the one we grew up with and Sally epitomized.

R.I.P.  Sally Ride – smooth flying.

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198 Responses

  1. Boy it’s a good thing Sally waited till she was near-death to tell everybody she was Lebanese, or somebody might have “Helped” her off the program and shipped her to the Bachmann Cure Clinic.

    Ride, Sally, Ride.

    http://cosmiclog.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2012/07/24/12933519-why-sally-ride-waited-until-her-death-to-tell-the-world-she-was-gay?lite

  2. Sex has always been a tricky topic for astronauts: In the old days, they worried that if they didn’t conform with the “Right Stuff” stereotype, they wouldn’t be picked for spaceflights. Issues such as alcohol abuse or marital problems often were swept under the carpet. Is it any surprise, then, that no active or former astronauts have publicly announced that they’re gay? Michael Cassutt, the author of “Who’s Who in Space,” is quoted on Space.com as saying that such an announcement would be a “career-wrecker.”

    Frigging Drunk: Good.
    Lesbian: Bad.

    Adultery: Good.
    Lesbian: Bad.

  3. Read about her Lebanese life yesterday and realized how we haven’t come very far as a society when someone this famous and accomplished felt she had to live that part of her life in secret. That she was a feminist and a glass ceiling breaker was obvious and yet she was such a down to earth and gentle person that she did it with grace.

    The Billy Joel line from “we didn’t start the fire” keeps going through my head – wheel of fortune, Sally Ride, heavy metal…

    Thanks for honoring a “hero to little girls everywhere” here today, lorac.

    ps: your hammock is safe, the air mattress not so much. Last time I used it it had a slow leak that I have not found yet so I will be on the floor by Sat morning and Sunday morning.

  4. upps, I know you don’t like the Turk guy but he did do a good job on this subject. Every partner in life, regardless of something as meaningless as a XX or XY chromosome, deserves full protection and rights under our national laws. Someday, maybe not in our lifetimes, but someday, maybe, we will have a Lebonese Female President.

  5. Just wish the world would stop making a federal case out of one’s preference.

  6. Code word around here, twandx. Don’t remember who started it but it stuck.

  7. Something I learned but forgot over the years: The sun is 100 times the size of the earth. NASA got some snapshots of the star that are pretty impressive. Of course this is not off-topic for Sally Ride!

    http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/technology-blog/nasa-telescope-snaps-most-detailed-photos-sun-ever-014723024.html

  8. Karen agree on the TURKey. He’s sleazy, but now and then he comes up with something useful.

    Yup Twandx, Lebanese somehow got inserted and it tickled us.

  9. Re Ant-knee’s last post about our assimilation by the borg, um, collectivism. I enjoy reading fun and light hearted books during the summer on subjects that I love, such as music, birds, the ocean, etc. but had to put them down for now because I was given Radical-In-Cheif by Stanley Kurtz, (hardcover edition, for free) and started reading it yesterday. We have talked about this subject, (obama as a card carrying socialist) since he came on the political scene in ernest and this guy put together lots of historical threads to make a red cloth out of the fraud Prez. I truly do worry about our country going to hell in a handbasket if this man continues with his country destroying agenda.

    The middle class is the backbone. STOP CRUSHING US.

  10. I am SO going to get killed for this…..and probably drerail the thread but….I have to ask…

    Why is the T on the end of LGBT? L, G, and B are sexual preferences of people who accept their gender and simply have a preference sexually. T just doesn’t seem to fit considering the complex nature that is more identity/surgically/medically related than anything.

    I was wondering if a lesbian, for example, would want to become romantically involved with a man who is, say, transgender, considering his equipment. I understand that this is an issued within the LGB community and it’s not too hard to see why. As a heterosexual woman, I can tell you without reservation, I would be seriously pissed off if a physically equipped woman tried to pass herself off as a man to me. Just saying. I don’t care if that person thinks he or she is a man, I should have some say in it. It’s my body.

    I guess I had better duck and run now. But if I don’t ask, I don’t learn.

  11. RIP Sally Ride, what an inspiration!

    Lebanese and lesbian, that’s too funny. I actually have an embarrassing story about that when my son was little. Ever since that has sort of been an inside family joke, we refer to lesbians as Lebanese, LOL!

  12. UW I can see your point about the T, but I’m a heterosexual woman too.

    I actually knew a guy that dated and fell in love with a woman that was actually a T. She shared the news with him when he proposed and he felt quite betrayed. He also thought that explained some things, but I’ll keep this G rated, LOL!

  13. LOL Somebody. I shall just use my imagination

    But I don’t think this is just a concern a hetero would have. I think it’s just as valid a concern of gays and lesbians.

  14. He didn’t say that. It’s not his fault. You didn’t hear the message. snicker

  15. OMG McNorman what a crock…….what he said was we need to stand behind them, support them?

    I heard his speech and he never said nor implied any such thing. Who the hell believes this crap?

  16. I didn’t go to Guatemala. I’m afraid if I leave the country they won’t let me back in.

  17. Who the hell believes this crap?

    Obots.

  18. What a walking crock of shit this guy is.

  19. The “T” is for “Transgender”. I did a stand-up act about a year ago, remembering when it was called the GAA (gay activist alliance) and as the bureaucratic red tape began winding around the movement, more letters were added to the anagram.

    I mused that one day, in an effort to be all inclusive it will be called the LGBTAPWDTMENAT movement: (Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and people who drink too much every now and then)

  20. LGBTAPWDTMENAT

    ROFL!

  21. I was given Radical-In-Cheif by Stanley Kurtz

    Excellent book, Karen. I hope you enjoy it. And thanks for referencing my post. Good to know it is remembered.

    UW – have you re-named me? :lol:

  22. Hell no, Anthony. I love you just the way you are.

    But I think my point is real, T is an Identity, whereas L G B are sexual preferences. They don’t go together. But if you throw in a whole bunch of other letters, can we add PH’s? This would be Painfully Heterosexual(s) who WISH they weren’t but just can’t break themselves.

  23. “Out of context” MY ASS. I heard what you said Barack Obama.

    What you really need is a dose of truthfulness, something you lack completely.

    Here’s the REAL translation:

    “I went and flapped my lips without a teleprompter again and, just like every other time, I revealed more of who and what I am –and what my intentions are”.

  24. Too funny Anthony……but didn’t you forget closeted republicans and televangelists?

    I mean if you’re really going to be inclusive.

  25. You want a nightmare? Here’s a nightmare. Obama in second term and Republicans owning both houses of congress. Because Barack Obama is a Cave-In. He will cave in on women, he will cave in on gays, he will cave in on everybody to get what HE wants for HIMSELF.

    A true nightmare, similar to a Republican President with a fully Republican Congress. Just like a dopey Democratic President with a fully Democratic Congress. See: Bullshit healthcare law. See, “I won’t sign a bill that doesn’t contain a public option”. See: stupak.

    I don’t care who is president anymore because the choices are HORRIBLE, but I don’t ever want to see one of these two hijacked parties owning both houses.

  26. I get what you’re saying, but disagree that it is a “preference”. Maybe in the loosest sense, but that word (to me) indicates that there is choice involved, like “Sure, I’ll have some vanilla ice cream, but my preference is chocolate”

    From what I’ve learned both by reading and interviewing Transgender people, it was never a choice or a preference. From day one, they felt like one gender trapped in another’s body. Not being transgender myself, I can only agree with the information data and the conversations have afforded me with.

    I tried explaining this to my sister (“Ghengis”) recently, when she spat out “Your lifestyle was your choice! And it ruined this family!”

    I asked her if she remembered the exact moment she decided to be straight. She haughtily said “No. I always knew I was”; to which I said “I rest my case”. (I also reminded her that my journal was titled TDAF (another anagram) which stood for “The Diary of Anthony Frank”)

    How she thought I would choose to be gay in a house full of Nazi’s still boggles me. Its a good laugh after a couple of bourbons, though….

  27. I didn’t go to Guatemala. I’m afraid if I leave the country they won’t let me back in.

    And we keep hoping!

  28. “PH’s” and closeted Republicans and televangelists fall under the category “people who drink too much every now and then”. I want a big tent here – come one, come all

  29. Yup, I didn’t think the Uppities would bite. hahahaha

    He’s such a lying ass. It’s just like him to muzzle Joe Biden but not himself.

  30. uh-oh…lorac…you’re in truuuu-bulll!! Obama is losing patience with the “you didn’t build that” stuff!
    http://www.politico.com/politico44/2012/07/obama-has-no-patience-for-you-didnt-build-that-attacks-130016.html

  31. OMG, that ad is hilarious :lol: :lol: :lol:

    Could he sound more patronizing if he tried?

    I used that same tone of voice when I used to bullshit my niece and nephew about why it was such a good idea to go to bed at 8 pm. Or when I told them that Santa was thinking about screwing them out of all their gifts, but if they didn’t tell Mommy about Uncle Trouble smoking that little bag of oregano, he could intervene and make sure that the latest (toy of the moment) would be under the tree.

  32. Yeah it kind of reminds me of the break I had in a fence that some kids thought was an invite to my land.I told them that they probably don’t want to enter from there because there are snakes.

  33. Dear Barack

    You didn’t build that advertisement. Somebody else DEFINITELY did that.

  34. Check this out:
    “Dems plan to go Nuclear On Romney “You Didn’t Build This” attack.

    This ought to be fun…
    http://www.buzzfeed.com/zekejmiller/democrats-plan-to-go-nuclear-on-romney-you-didnt

  35. UW – I’m running out the door, but I’m chime in quickly – h*ll, NO, “T” should not be included – the others are sexual preferences in partners, but T is about sexual identity, about oneself, in other words. I think they had no where else to put it. They’re even starting to add a couple other letters on now, I’ll try to remember what for, but it’s ridiculous. Really, none should be together, IMO. For example, also IMO, lesbians are way more like straight women than they are like gay men. Making the group LGBT just makes me feel they should just throw every outcast in there, because really that’s the only thing they share. Throw in black streakers and chinese nudists, etc lol gotta run now

    imust – he better get used to it, because he’s going to keep hearing it!

  36. Excepting women who are heterosexually oriented but chose to live as lesbians for political reasons, and het women who have experimented, “lesbianism” is not a preference, it’s a sexual orientation, same as male homosexuality, bi-sexuality, transsexuality, heterosexuality.

  37. My inital post has vanished but two ghosts of it showed up. One of them [at 8:23 AM] quoted my initial post, then went on to reply to it which would be OK except that twandx was given the credit for that reply.

    Just to set the record straight, I do not agree to all that person had to say under the twandx avatar, just as s[he] doubtless did not like being ID’d as twandx. For example, in Vermont as some other states, gay marrige is legal and has the same rights and privileges as heteroes.

  38. From your link Anthony

    We’ll being done this with on the ground events in states which are coming together as we speak and with a national press conference call which will include small business owners and others – including at least one person from MA – who will speak about Romney’s failed record and failed policies as well as President Obama’s record as a consistent advocate for small businesses.

    This is an official campaign memo. Do they not have someone to proofread? Does the proofreader know basic grammar? Has the proofreader ever heard of subject-verb agreement? Petty on my part, perhaps. I would absolutely die if I sent out a memo like that.

  39. DWP…….I’m not aware of any woman that is heterosexual yet lives a lesbian lifestyle for political reasons…..WTH? I suppose maybe there is an area where only a homosexual can get elected, but even SanFran Nan is hetero and has no issue getting elected.

    I would think the opposite would be true, a lesbian living a heterosexual life for political reasons.

  40. Twandx, someone is impersonating you?

  41. Ok I’ll go with orientation, but still don’t see Trans as an orientation, but more of an Identity.

  42. Just wish the world would stop making a federal case out of one’s preference.

    It really IS a federal case though, as it’s the creatures at the federal level of government who continue to block laws that make anybody they don’t like equal to their own preferred selves.

    Gays and lesbians do not have the same rights a married heterosexual person has with respect to care and advocacy of their partners, and that is BIG. They have no equal rights to health care benefits of their employed partners and that’s big too. They don’t actually even have the right to disposition a deceased partner.

  43. Ok Twandx, I see what happened here. I tried to respond to your comment and somehow i screwed up and my comment ended up in YOUR comment. I have corrected it and done my comment correctly now.

  44. oh McNorman, Barry makes himself perfectly clear and we just aren’t smart enough to understand his genius. And as Uppity says – and the dish ran away with the spoon.

  45. Her sexual orientation should make no difference.:)

  46. Somebody, on July 25, 2012 at 12:00 PM said:
    DWP…….I’m not aware of any woman that is heterosexual yet lives a lesbian lifestyle for political reasons…..WTH? I suppose maybe there is an area where only a homosexual can get elected, but even SanFran Nan is hetero and has no issue getting elected.
    I would think the opposite would be true, a lesbian living a heterosexual life for political reasons.

    I knew several when I lived in NY. Didn’t know any when I live in SFO Bay Area. They were feminists who refused to live half-way: living with their male companions/ husbands, benefitting from the privileges accorded males, while simultaneously protesting the same.

  47. Twandx, a matter of equal human rights should never be a state issue. It should be a USA constitutional issue. That is why I believe it IS a Federal issue. In the USA you don’t cross state lines and no longer be an equal person under the law. You are supposed to have the same civil rights as everyone else. This would never be tolerated with people of color, so why people of sexual orientation?

  48. I thought it was teh fork that ran away with the spoon, then I was corrected that it was indeed the knife that ran away with the spoon. So is it the dish?

  49. Ok to me a sexual orientation means I am of a particular sex and I am not a hetero. That will lnclude all lesbians and gay men. To me, a trans person says, I don’t think I’m really the sex I was born with and I have a problem with this identity so I wish to change my role and be the opposite sex, while being considered heterosexual when I do that. Do I not have this right?

  50. Somebody

    PS I didn’t mean “political” in terms of elections, I mean it it terms of “the personal is the political”.

  51. Uppity,

    – I include “heterosexuality” as a sexual orientation.

    – Not all transsexuals identify as heterosexuals. Some Trannies are homosexual.

  52. When obama does his W.O.R.M. thing, the knife, fork and dish all run away with the spoon. The table, the linoleum, the dishwasher, the kitchen sink all get up and leave the room.

    “I didn’t say that” is even worse than “what I really meant”. His balls are enormous when it comes to lies.

    His pants are on fire, somebody send him back to Hawaii.

  53. Here’s the answer:

  54. My father was a construction worker and was gentle as can be but had muscles and not one ounce of fat on him due to 7 days of working like a dog building shit. If my dad was alive he would have laughed his ass off as puny-little-weakling-bo-diddly-squat tried to tell the old Italian construction workers that they didn’t build it. The hell they didn’t. He would have pointed his finger at the TV and laughed at the doofus.

    He was on the Verrazano Narrows Bridge crew among others. He had steel beams crush his diabetic toes and he went right back to work.

    Hard hats are part of America. I will always be proud of my dad, the builder. There were chunks of concrete in his clothes and I had to shake them out before I tossed them in the wash. We’d still find rocks in the washer and dryer and in my dad’s ears!

    Barry can’t understand building things because he never did it himself.

  55. His balls are enormous

    I could have gone all week without reading that.

  56. OMG Oswald that Asslerod clip is priceless, what a douchebag!

  57. @ Karen

    We are all so silly according to the jackass.

  58. DE, that sounds like a 21st century Lysistrata in reverse
    http://www.sparknotes.com/drama/lysistrata/summary.html

    Karen for Clinton, This is the same sentiment that has sparked the ire of any of us who have dragged ourselves out of bed to go to work each day to put food on the table. Your father sounds like a hell of a guy. At some point, I’ll thank The Dog Eater for imploding his own campaign and second term, but not until I wake up to find he’s out of office.

    Re: the whole LGBT thing, this all began in the mid 1950′s as “The Mattachine Society” which was a group of gay lawyers who really took a risk by outing themselves to represent victims of gay hate crimes and also inform more people about homosexuality. The corresponding female group was called “The Daughters of Bilitis” It morphed into the GAA (mentioned above) and has since expanded to include anyone who will be treated unfairly because of their sexual orientation, which I do believe includes Transgender people.

    lorac, I believe that men behave like men and women behave like women, and that means that I agree with you that gay and straight women behave more like each other (as do gay and straight men). I don’t think its a matter of physical gender that should be the issue. Both gay men and gay women are gay. That is the unifying factor. For me, including Transgender people is not a problem. They get their ass kicked for the same reason that gays do.

  59. Don’t ever be surprised at douchey Asselrod. The guy will tell you that the day is dark and the night is bright. It’s all about what and how you should be perceiving everything. He knows what is best, you see? I really wish the earth would swallow this a$$hole up, but I am terribly afraid that it would spit him right back out.

  60. At some point, I’ll thank The Dog Eater for imploding his own campaign and second term, but not until I wake up to find he’s out of office.

    Seems like a lot of people are very worried about this right now. He just might have sucked the life right out of himself according to a report I heard on the radio this morning. This is key. It is the most egregious statement he has made to date (but he didn’t mean it like that).

  61. karen, your description of your father reminded me of the guy who built the Watts Towers, singlehandedly! His name was Simon Rodia, an Italian immigrant.

  62. Exactly, imust. Men like that would take a break and have a bowl of pasta, a glass of vino, some salada, olives, garlic, bread, a bunch of grapes, some nuts and then go right back to building like a well oiled human machine. They’d-a build a-something that a-nobody ever a-heard of a-fore. They built and they left their marks.

    A whole generation of them built. Barry was in Indonesia, then Hawaii, then at Harvard. How the hell would he know what it was like to build.

    OUT OF TOUCH.

    How much you want to bet Hillary is furious over that remark? Her dad didn’t build his business?

  63. Karen my grandfather was a finish carpenter, immigrant. Talk about not an ounce of fat, he put a roof on his own house when he was 89.

    My father was a carpenter who hitched up with my smart mother. He broke his leg pretty badly when some guy jumped the curb outside the post office. He was in a bad way and needed to work. So they started estimating small jobs. You know, a porch, a deck…etc. And then he would sublet the work to others he knew who were skilled and out of work. Then he would make a profit. The problem was he never collected money, so as my mother tells it, one day she took all his crumpled receipts and started organizing things. Then she put on her coat and went and collected on all the bills. She says she filled a dresser drawer with cash that day, and thought, This is Good. A business was born. They started building homes. After years as a home builder, an employer and a business couple, they moved on to commercial work. First local, then regional and then beyond that. They were one of the chosen contractors for the military eg air bases, etc. They build schools everywhere, and churches and conference centers, shopping centers etc. They employed a LOT of union labor and everyone did well. They busted their asses to maintain a reputation, they often worked seven days a week and they took huge risks with their own damned money. I can tell you for sure, Barack obama not only couldn’t have built that, but he wouldn’t have the ENERGY to build it. So fuck him. I ain’t forgetting this and neither will plenty of people just like me.

  64. dwp: Yeah well you can see where this whole Tranny thing could get very confusing and not very attractive to a lesbian, a gay or a heterosexual. We all kind of like to know exactly what we are getting up front, you know? And yes of course heterosexuality is an orientation. It just wasn’t part of the LGBT question. For my part, I would definitely pass on that deal.

  65. My other immigrant grandfather was a fisherman. He worked on building dams to save money to start a business. He told me stories of men who fell into the concrete and they just left them there. Horses they would try to pull out. You think Barack Obama ever lifted his ass or risked HIS life like that? He’s nothing but a pansy and it shows. My grandfather built a fish, poultry and butcher store and people came from miles around for his fresh food. He would only buy one side of a cow because the cow most likely rested on the other side. He was very particular. At Christmas-time he would take all the fish and meat that wasn’t sold and would cook it up and all his grandchildren went with him to deliver it to the poor. Can you see barack obama doing that? My grandfather refused to pay ‘protection’ that was so common in those old mafioso days. He had a horse and cart to deliver things and they tried to burn his store down at least twice. Then one day the horse came home by itself with the cart, they had cut my grandfather’s throat. Too bad for them he lived. In the second store burning, my mother recalls seeing the horse dead. She never forgot it. They came to respect him. VERY much.

    When his best friend and his wife were killed in a crash, my grandfather adopted his two daughters. NO GOVERNMENT HELP WAS NEEDED or WANTED.

    So when Barack tells ME his pissy assed story of ‘hardship’ he never had, I just want to laugh in his face.

    My grandfather the carpenter summed it all up for me when he said, he came here because he heard the roads were paved with gold. When he got here he found out:

    1. The roads were not paved with gold.
    2 The roads were not paved at all.
    and
    3. He was expected to pave them.

    And THAT is what is missing with the bullshit illegal immigration we are tolerating today. Somebody else built this country brick by brick and so many come here looking to reap benefits while refusing to salute the American flag.

  66. Uppity Woman, on July 25, 2012 at 2:16 PM said:

    dwp: Yeah well you can see where this whole Tranny thing could get very confusing and not very attractive to a lesbian, a gay or a heterosexual. We all kind of like to know exactly what we are getting up front, you know?

    Understood and agreed. Altho, I think the example above, a relationship evolving (devolving?) to the point of a marriage proposal without the partner knowing, or being told about, of the other’s trans status is a very rare occurrence.

    I won’t say more about trannies. I prefer my blood pressure to remain normal.

  67. And THAT is what is missing with the bullshit illegal immigration we are tolerating today. Somebody else built this country brick by brick and so many come here looking to reap benefits while refusing to salute the American flag.

    Amen! From a daughter and granddaughter of (legal) immigrants.

  68. I hear you Ups, but I believe it is better that some states come forth and break discrimitory federal law – in doing so they show the way and shame the other states. Also, it gives committed couples a place to live under the law’s protection and share the benifits awarded to heteros.

    We know that all states do not obey the feds when it interferes with their prejudices – like some Southern ones who make gay couples life a hell, prevent legal abortions by hate and fear etc.

  69. We know that all states do not obey the feds when it interferes with their prejudices – like some Southern ones who make gay couples life a hell, prevent legal abortions by hate and fear etc.

    Twandx, it happens to a lesser degree right here in NYC. Sure, we passed gay marriage, but I still run into people who won’t let me near their children, stop talking to me after they find out – I even saw someone throw my glass away after having iced tea when they thought I wasn’t looking. There are a hell of a lot of Neocons alive and well on the Upper East SIde who are openly – screw that, PROUDLY homophobic and pro life.

    As long as our personal business can be used as a means for political division, these things will happen anywhere. More in some locales, less in others.

    I’ve told more than one person “If you really believe that gay marriage is a threat, then you’re probably hiding something of your own that you don’t want any of us to find out about”

  70. HELENK LEFT THIS AT THE CRAWDAD HOLE:

  71. Obama camp, “Not worried about the ‘you didn’t build that’ attacks”…..yeah, right.
    http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/ticket/obama-campaign-not-worried-over-didn-t-build-162434442.html

  72. Uppity there is a non-urgent DM on its way to you. Take your time. Next week. Next month. 12th of never

    Lorac I like that you translated teh one’s logic down to the smallest of details. That he keeps on defending his statement is beyond my imagination. I guess they really are just words to him as HRC revealed more than 4 years ago. If he gets just the right phrase he can make his problem go away?

  73. My grandfather the carpenter summed it all up for me when he said, he came here because he heard the roads were paved with gold. When he got here he found out:

    1. The roads were not paved with gold.
    2 The roads were not paved at all.
    and
    3. He was expected to pave them.

    And THAT is what is missing with the bullshit illegal immigration we are tolerating today. Somebody else built this country brick by brick and so many come here looking to reap benefits while refusing to salute the American flag.

    Thank you. These are the lessons that we were taught by action not blah blah blah out the yahoo from the manchild (and all the illegals who believe that this country’s benefits are their entitlement).

  74. Anthony that video is hilarious!

  75. Uppity, your recollection of your parents and grandparents is beyond touching, and so inspirational. Is there a book coming? Would be a great idea to pass along to each generation, who could then add to the story as the family continues. I believe that we all should be in touch with those who paved the way for us and created the character of the family we were born into.

    I wonder what your grandfathers reaction would have been had he heard the “You didn’t build that!” bullshit…

    Thanks for sharing part of your personal story.

    And thanks too for sharing that balsamic reduction recipe. Consider it stolen.

  76. Anthony these people you run into…….you should run from!!

    Won’t let you near their kids, throwing away glasses?? WTF?? Simply because you’re gay? I don’t know anyone that would act like that and I’m a republican in a southern state, wow……just wow, unbelievable!

  77. imust, I’m still laughing. Makes me want to get the video camera out of the case

  78. Somebody, these are nouveau riche assholes who moved here from somewhere else and think they have the right to pass judgement on anyone who lives outside their smarmy little boxes. And this is in NYC. Fortunately, they are the exception and not the rule here. My point was that they are not only found in what one might consider a predictable area.

    Also, I don’t run away from anyone. I swagger.

  79. Swagger, LOL!

    Just so long as you don’t give such assholes a second thought. Life is entirely too short to waste your time on that kind of ignorance.

  80. Yes, HE built this:

  81. And thanks too for sharing that balsamic reduction recipe. Consider it stolen

    Bastage!!!!!

  82. I just came back from “camp”. Your grandfather told me to tell you to get a picture of him and your grandmother, put it on a shelf with one of his jackknives, light a candle and eat a peach while you think about those summers.

    Beautiful story.

  83. Hey I got lots of pics of them. Including wedding pics. No kidding. I also have a huge oil portrait of my great grandmother–for whom I am named.

  84. Uhm Upps gonna spill the beans on the name? hahaha

    Just teasing NES.

  85. You can have an email about those things and what you can do with them if you like. I spent time in Benevento researching Italian folk customs. Have a great pic of an underground grotto from 2nd century BC with a naturally occurring pool that is still flowing to this day.

    vesta grotto

  86. Anthony, I wrote somewhere here about how my cousin, with whom I was raised, and myself went two summers ago to find our camp, and we found it! What a kick! By the way, the other thing about Tony the farmer is, we would get chickens. The chickens were in a sack. They were put in the trunk and they were definitely not dead.

  87. lol McN. NES already tried that one.

  88. I was pre school when my poor uncle, whom I worshipped, was forced the task of walking me up and down the street because i went into the cellar and turned the spigot on the wine barrel…with my mouth under it.

  89. Did you ever sober up? Going back to the camp must have been awesome….. Still in the family?

  90. Hell that wasn’t camp, that was my grandfather’s house.

    Some day I will tell you about CawCaw (stress on second ‘caw’) the grey parrot my grandfather inherited after it outlived his his brother

    Here’s your balsamic measurements.

    First you must roast a leg of lamb with a boatload of rosemary and garlic shoved in it.

    Now for the drizzle:
    1/3 cup balsamic
    2 cloves garlic, smashed really good
    1 scant tablespoon of dark brown sugar
    Large sprig of fresh rosemary

    Bring it to a boil and simmer for 10 minutes, then strain it. It will taste good as is, but be thicker and better if you chill it for awhile and then reheat it. Drizzle it over/around the lamb slices. Makes a nice presentation. A little goes a long way, so dont treat it like gravy. Goes great if you make mashed potatoes too. Yum.

  91. Whoa. That grotto.

  92. Yeah Oswald, I could see some of these beastly kids we have in the USA shooting each other’s eyes out with salt.

    That thing would be illegal in NY. Shit you can’t even get decent pepper spray in NY.

  93. Ding! Ding! Another Darwin Award Winner! Man in bar sets his hair on fire….because of a bet.

    http://www.cnn.com/video/?hpt=hp_t3#/video/us/2012/07/24/dnt-ga-man-sets-head-on-fire-wjbf.cnn

  94. imust he can’t be a winner unless he’s dead. Instead, he would be regarded as “at risk’ of being a winner and will probably try again.

  95. Got it Uppity! He’s just a wannbe!

  96. Yeah imust. What a loser :)

    But he has plenty more chances and any asshole who would set his hair aflame on a bet is sure to use up his chances. He certainly does have potential.

  97. Ok here you go McNorman. The name is an Italian translation of a greek name for a particular flower The name in turn, translated into English is, of course, one of several variations of the same flower’s name.

  98. Still in the family?

    Feh! I was the youngest and the definite favorite.

  99. A puzzle…..but you lost me after the first translation. It’s all Greek to me. Maybe Socalannie can figure it out!

  100. Anyone want to bet that his last words before setting his head on fire were “Hold my beer and watch this?”

  101. Anthony said:

    /Also, I don’t run away from anyone. I swagger.

    How butch! ;-)

  102. Angelica, Agapanthus, Amantha, Anthea, Cloris, Delbina, Diantha, Fiona, Flora, Iris, Jacinta, Kamelia or Camelia, Lantha, Laura, Lilian or Lili or Lilia and about 10 other variations of Lily, Marilis, Melantha, Rosabella, Veronica, Viola, Violetta, Violet.

    Any of these UW?

  103. Nice try Somebody.

    Uh…no.

  104. I know Uppity! Rumplestiltskin?

  105. Either that or Rapunzel.

  106. See, Sally did her job and flew under the radar and didn’t get as much press as the deranged diaper wearing love deranged dingbat. Guess we know what is important in society.

  107. AnnE. Ooooooooo I forgot about her.

    ……….wince.

  108. OMG SHV!!!!! THAT IS HILARIOUS!!!!

    PEOPLE CLICK ON HIS LINK!!!!

  109. I found it on youtube! I gotta put that up tomorrow!

  110. Fiorella

  111. You gotta be kidding Somebody.

  112. Meh, so maybe they call you Ella?

  113. How about Crewella, LMAO!!

  114. Technically from what I read Fiorella is an Italian girl name that literally means flower and was originally translated from Greek……so it seemed to me to be the winner. That’s why I waited to post it.

  115. Cynthia, Zenia, Acacia , Petunia, Rosemarie, Alyssa , Amantha Amaryllis , Anemone , Ayanna , Azalea ,Azhar, Begonia, Blanchefleur , Bluebell , Bryony , Calantha?

  116. Cynthia, Zenia, Acacia , Petunia, Alyssa , Amantha Amaryllis , Anemone , Ayanna , Azalea ,Azhar, Begonia, Blanchefleur , Bluebell , Bryony , Calantha ?

  117. Violetta

  118. Lilliana, Veronica, Bernicia, Antonella…Peperoncini?

  119. OLIVIA!!

  120. Anemone the ancient Greek word for flower.

    Antheia an Italian variation of Anthea.

  121. Rosa

  122. Daisy

  123. Even if you guess it….you know she won’t tell you…. ;)

  124. True I could’ve hit on it already.

  125. My name in Greek is πίτα.
    In Danish it’s tærte.
    In Icelandic it’s baka.

  126. LoL Imust!

    (I’m half Greek, half Italian.)

  127. Nice combo Dances! What’s your name in Greek…or Italian??
    (Why am I getting hungry all of a sudden?)

  128. Good grief.

  129. You will pay for the Crewella thing.

    I said a particular flower, not the generic flower.

  130. Peperoncini?

    This was not lost on me.

  131. Keep trying.

    But do it somewhere else. lol.

  132. Petunia? This is a goldfish name.

  133. Now I said the name is one of the variations from a flower, in otherwords my name is NOT a flower.

  134. Tell you what. You pick my name.

  135. What’sa matta you Uppity? Aww….we were just having fun!
    I know…..shuddaupa my face!

  136. Good God.

    Hey FF! What are you doing on the computer!

  137. I have a decent name. Not too common but not wierd. It goes well with the surname and that’s that. My parents were good to me.

  138. How’s your eye FF? 20-20!

  139. dwp I am so J. I want to be Greek. Greek is my very favorite food.

  140. My name in Greek is πίτα.
    In Danish it’s tærte.
    In Icelandic it’s baka.

    In English it’s imusthavepie.

  141. YIKES! imusthavebeendiscovered!

    Okay, based on your clues I’m agreeing with Somebody and FF, Rose or Rosa.

  142. You’d be wrong. It’s not even remotely ethnic.

  143. Rosetta?

  144. Uppity – went from 20/75 to 20/30 in the right eye. Still need “readers” and some minor distance correction, but the COLORS – WOW! JUST WOW! I have the 2nd eye done in 2 weeks. NOT spending a lot of time on the computer, I promise. Even wearing the shades in the bright rooms in the house, but OMG – I feel like Dorothy must have felt when she saw OZ. INCREDIBLE!

  145. Daisy Mae.

  146. Yeah FF, it’s good to see!

  147. What a horrid name.

  148. do you see what you’ve started…..

  149. FF ((((HUGS)))) So happy to hear things are improving…..now get off your computer!!!!

    We miss you!

    Actually Uppity it was my husband that piped in Crewella and then after I hit post corrected my spelling, telling me it’s Cruelella. Yikes, I hope that isn’t his code name for me!!!

    I’ve never played the name game, I thought I’d give it a shot. Personally I think Uppity Woman is just fine. There are freaks everywhere so even if we guessed something close, just tell us we’re wrong and leave it at that.

    One last try…….Amelia Bedelia Uppity!!! What, it sounds Italian. My MIL was Italian and her name rhymed like that….totally NOT kidding.

  150. When I was a kid, my piano teacher was named Carmella Casella. Need I say more?

  151. Imusthavepie

    dances with big cats:
    Greek: Χορεύοντας με μεγάλες γάτες 
    Italian: Danze con grandi gatti

  152. Whoa!!! Look at that header! Fantastic, FF!!

  153. Black-eyed Susan. Completely racially sensitive adn a common, well-known name for a variety of fleurs. OK, off to finish dinner. Nothing so grand as lamb w/balsamic, but fresh garlic, home-grown onions and some mushrooms add to the joy. BB soon, and thanks for the well-wishes. Will be a month after eye #2 I get new glasses RX, but I am sure that will in no way interfere with my bad typing and spelling!

    LOL

    XO (I ALMOST just typed ‘RX’”) must be my current condition!

    hope you enjoy the new header. he Russian MKB Dolls – in honor of the next election ponzi scheme.

  154. thanks DWP. Heh. Now you have a ‘splaination.

    OT adn BTW – Please send Sophie B Hawkins your love via twitter. She apparently broke her wrist rehearsing her Janis play.

  155. Oh sure Somebody. Blame your poor husband. Once more my name is NOT italian sounding.

  156. Yes indeed Anthony, dear. I do see. I do see.

  157. Wouldn’t it be funny if her name was Lily?!! I know, she said it wasn’t a flower, but a variation. But still…it woulda been funny.

  158. aaaaaaand I suppose you’re happy

  159. Anthony, you were in Benevento? I was there once, visiting family. (No, we’re not related to Padre Pio.)

    Are you a paesano?

  160. Adrienne,
    The Greek and Italian cuisine was wonderful … Fiery tempers? Not so much.

  161. Wow, FF, nice header!! Glad to hear you’re on the mend and things are looking better–literally.

    Wow. I just noticed the moderator kitteh in training. Has that been there a while?

  162. Not a paesano, Sophie, but I spent almost 4 months researching the early traditions and folklore of the region. I found out so much amazing information, along with a lot of obscure local history once they trusted me. Even spent the night at the site of the ancient temple on Lake Nemi. Very cool place – would love to have a reason to go back. Did you visit Avellino when you were there?

  163. Sounds very nice, Anthony. No I didn’t go to Avellino when I was there. I just visited my cousins, had homemade limoncello and other homemade delectables. I was in the middle of a tour and cut out for part of it to have family time, then joined back in.

  164. I have relatives in Campania region. Caserta

  165. I gotta go help pick up a cat. BBL.

  166. Is this for real? http://tinyurl.com/c7fu9ow

    GretaWire reporting the same news.”Obama creating African-American education office ” (Through Executive Order)

  167. My apologies if anyone else posted this, but either Bozo’s boys are running scared or incredibly vindictive to launch TWO federal investigations on a Romney donor.

    http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2012/07/24/romney-donor-bashed-by-obama-campaign-now-target-two-federal-audits/

  168. Wow!
    Why not create an education office based on class ( no pun intended). Aren’t there any Caucasian, Latino, Asian students who are falling behind?

    Can ya tell it’s an election year? Obama is tossing crumbs to almost every demographic?

    This guy has *got* to good!!

  169. Another great post, lorac!

  170. Hey want don’t we just dumb school down and have kids show up once in awhile and then ship them directly to a dumbed down college.

    What exactly does he expect to do for lagging students of ANY color from Washington DC. It’s a waste. Let the states and local districts have this money, since they actually KNOW what to do with it. I never understood this concept of a federal dept of education riddled with political appointees who don’t know shit about education, or certainly don’t know shit about the needs of individual localities. It’s just plain stupid. Federal intervention is what has turned schools into nannies as it is, hardly any time left for actually learning anything.

  171. Well done, Lorac. Just the perfect amount of snark. My dearest friend invented her own business, started with nothing and had no help from anyplace. Twelve years later, and day by day, she gets more creative and innovative. She also never stops working. No one is doing it for her.

    Certainly, I appreciate the profound influence of certain teachers and mentors in my life, but if I am not working hard daily on my life and goals, I will go nowhere.

  172. Anthony at 317,

    but I still run into people who won’t let me near their children, stop talking to me after they find out – I even saw someone throw my glass away after having iced tea when they thought I wasn’t looking.

    Irrational. Plainly, irrational. We are ALL God’s children. No more, no less.

  173. Uppity at 421

    I also have a huge oil portrait of my great grandmother–for whom I am named.

    No kidding!!! Her name was GGM Uppity? Did she have blog?

  174. This one is for Uppity:

  175. See? That’s how you kill a thread.

  176. ROFL! Great job Oswald, you and your Banana 2000 killed the thread.

  177. I even saw someone throw my glass away after having iced tea when they thought I wasn’t looking.

    Where the H do you FIND these people?

  178. Yeah Oswald, I can tell right off that 99% of the memories that live longest in that guy’s mind, never really happened.

  179. Great Gram didn’t have a blog. I’m not sure she could even read or write. She died when my grandmother was 15. Kidney stones, seriously. They couldn’t fix those things back in the old country in those days. Must have been horrific.

    SO I got the name, the portrait ….AND the kidney stones. Cue Twightlight Zone.

    Yeah Oswald comes here to cut the traffic and reroute it to his Daddy’s blog. I tell you this bird is a bad one, but you guys won’t believe me.

  180. Where the H do you FIND these people?

    51st & Park, PH B

    To be fair, I did bring broach the subject with this person and let her know that I saw what she did. Her answer was “I was just being careful. You hear so much about AIDS these days… you can never be too careful” which blew my stack. I told her that all gay people don’t have AIDS, and even if I was HIV+, I simply drank a glass of tea. There was no bare-backing involved.

  181. Anthony, I am not at all surprised that woman threw the glass out. Obama would have tossed it too. Those limosine liberals are the worst sort. They have money to burn and pretend to care about the environment, the poor – the little people they look down on, gays, blacks, woman’s rights, but all along they are far more interested in how Wall Street is doing on their portfolios, how the weather is in Tahiti in June, and how not to get the lower and middle class germs on their little doggie named Muffie. Seriously, I have been in the homes of the uber-rich and they have huge poles up their asses that need to be plucked. Stuck up assholes. Don’t feel bad, they’d treat a construction worker the same way. If he sat on their chair and got his sweat on it they would have it reupholstered.

  182. Karen, I didn’t feel bad at all. This wasn’t a friend – it was someone that wanted to commission me to make a piece of art for her. She was invoiced appropriately.

    I’ve been around the block a few times, and can play hardball with the best of them. I told her that she could’ve at least just left it on the counter until I left.

  183. Hey Ant-knee, did you see the fantastic letter from the Mayor of Boston to Chick-fil-A? He told them where to stick their Holier than Thou bull.

  184. Sure did, Karen – also heard what Rahm Emanuel said too (“Chick-fil-A doesn’t reflect Chicago Values!”) I don’t eat fast food, but knowing that it is the antithesis of Chicago values, I want to go out and buy some!

    To be honest, the company is owned by some religious nut job. As long as they continue to serve and/or hire gay people, I couldn’t give a damn – especially since Rahm-bo made it clear its a diversion.

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